Lets talk on fitnah.
Fitnah, sedara jua dgn ngumpat, is one of the things that I'm afraid of. There is no escaping us from talking on others or listening to gossips. Even i admit i do it sometimes but trust me, i'm limiting myself and preventing it. It's not a healthy habit, yet again if that someone we talk about will not forgive us for what we had said.
Let me elaborate what fitnah is. Fitnah could be accusation, false news, or make up stories that is for the intention to put on a bad name to a person, whether its in forms of signals (for the deaf), writing (msn, blog) or, the most common one, through speech. Its difficult for us to escape from comitting or hearing fitnah made by somebody else, usually during gatherings, hangouts in cafes, wedding ceremonies etc Then there's the art of spreading it from texting msgs, forums, status updates (ada kli ah), long phone calls.
Random much im writing on this isn't it? Well the thing is I found out someone is making up stories.
All I can say is please stop your childish behavior because sooner or later, no one will believe you anymore. People will find it hard to trust you yet again believe for whatever you say in the future. You can talk about fabricated stories all you want, for a fact that it will not benefit you in any other way. I may or may not forgive you, but let Allah pass judgment as He is the only one eligible enough to do so.
Salam~
CBox Beb!
1 comment:
you know whats even MORE dangerous about fitnah?
Is finding out about the fitnah from someone else. Though, that's how fitnah usually works.
I am not the best person to say this (because I am going through something similar myself), but I wish I could just talk to the person yg fitnah and find out if he/she REALLY did start the fitnah.
All wars begin with a misunderstanding. That I believe.
Hope all turns out well Kash. Sabar saja.. if you can't confront that person, forgive saja. Let it go. Don't carry it around all your life like a huge heavy baggage behind your back. :D
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