Thursday, April 10, 2008

Would you go out with me?

I just realized i've got 9000+ views already. Wow. After 173 posts i've got that number of views! Well plusminus balik2 reload your own blog brapa plg nganya kli tu hahahahha. I think after 10,000 views i should write something awesome for my readers.

Can't think of anything to write... hrmmm, well, i was chatting with a friend earlier today. We were talking about love life and those leading to it. For my friend she's still single so she told me tons of stuff. One thing i learn from it is for you guys out there, if you like a girl, just tell her. Don't give her too many damn signals or signs and most importantly NEVER leave her hanging, one of the worst case scenarios. Well, as i mentioned earlier, tell her, i mean if you were to be rejected then move on. For guys its an easier case since us males, usually, are the one asking a girl out. A girl will look too desperate if they ask a guy out. I mean if you got a date with the girl then hurray, if you don't then just tell her how much all this time you feel about that girl.That she's the most gorgeous girl you've ever met, well honestly speaking (don't make it up). Face rejection and move on. Thousands of fishes are waiting to be caught.

But i do understand that some guys are too shy to do that. Some being not confident about it. But guess what. Thats what you have to learn through life. Make good bad decisions now for future reference. If you haven't learn a mistake now, how could you ever notice it will lurk you in the future? All im saying is give it a try. Some of you may argue that its all comfortable for me since i've got an awesome girl with me. But, fyi, i went thru the phase. I asked her out. But before that i also went thru a couple of rejections from other girls lol. But hey, what matters is you let your feelings out. They're not haunting you anymore. Do you ever get that feeling that you have a huge crush but when you wanted to move on you just can't? You just want a confirmation. You just want to know whether she likes you or not. So then ask her. It does hurt when facing rejection but eventually you'll get over it and when you do, you'll feel a huge load just got off your chest. But what if she likes you the same way? SCORE!

I think its not wrong to tell a girl how pretty she is. Well, the if this girl is a complete stranger then you have to learn pick up lines, which i know a couple of friends who are good at it, you guys know who u are hahahahah. But one tip, don't take pick up lines from the movies, everyone heard about it already. So yeah, bring a girl out, have a laugh, bring her to the movies, arcade, bowling whatever BLANJA her for dinner and you never know by the end of the night, she wants a second date.

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